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when u tryna do hw but also u have a sad ex boyfriend that u think abt way too much to be cute anymore and it literally prevents u from being a real person haha ok this is cool what is this what am i even

aslutfor5sos:

moriartystayingalive:

If a guy ever spreads a rumor that he slept with you, don’t deny it. One, because there will always be people who think it’s true, and two, because that dumbass boy just handed you the power to say anything you want about what he’s like in bed, and people will believe it. Say he bleats like a sheep when he orgasms. Say he put on pearl earrings and asked you to call him Daisy. Say he couldn’t get it up until he watched an old Billy Mays infomercial. The power is yours.

This is my new favorite post

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UPDATE!!!!

Wow okay so I have not actually written a thing about my life in so so long and nothing extensive since HIGH SCHOOL, which was the worst time ever to be a person, so lemme tell anyone who still kills that my life is v different now in amazing ways!

I graduated high school and took a gap year working with an education based nonprofit called City Year (http://cityyear.org/), ~~also disclaimer: none of the views expressed here reflect City Year or Americorps in any way~~ which sends diverse teams of idealistic young people into low-performing schools for a year of service with kids! I served ten months in a public elementary school in the South Bronx. Through giving so much love to all those lil ones, I learned how to love myself, which is super important and something I unfortunately hadn’t been good about til then.

After that, I started my freshman year at Bard College and am now a sophomore with an intended joint major in Written Arts and Philosophy!! I commonly refer to Bard as “the best thing to ever happen to me” because I am so lucky and privileged to go to a college that is absolutely perfect for me in every single way. 

A lot more stuff happened in between these things..I’ve been marijuana-free for almost two years and have been cigarette-free for ten days!!!! I played division III lacrosses for a season and discovered it wasn’t really for me. I operate my college a cappella group’s Facebook page. I bought a succulent and named it Mark. I started cooking at least one of my meals every day at school, which is hard and kind of pricey, but it’s been delicious to say the least! I dated a few people who made me happy and sad in important ways and all taught me something I needed to know about myself. I’ve watched my puppy grow from eight pounds to 125. I watched my grandpa pass away. I’ve watched my brother go through high school and watched as he came to understand what the expectations are for him as a child with special needs. I’ve watched my brother surpass everyone’s expectations. I’ve switched over to natural deodorant. I bought my first vibrator. I lost and gained many friends. My cat allergy got worse. 

I look back on the things I wrote when I was depressed and anxious and didn’t know if I would be able to make it in this world and be okay and now I am a thriving, beautiful person and I am alive and I am just so happy and grateful to be here.

Have a great night everyone. Thank you for being here, too.

yunglapras:

i hate that “LOL SO IF WOMEN ARE EQUAL CAN I PUNCH YOU” shit bc 1 in 3 women are abused

y’all are already punching us

the issue is that we’d like you to stop

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alphabitches:

sexting boys is so fun because they get so into it and you’re like cleaning your kitchen or something

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Loving yourself is the most important thing. Without appreciating who you are on a fundamental level, it is impossible to feel pride and satisfaction in your accomplishments, give love fully to other people who are deserving of it, and accept it fully from those same people who want to readily give it to you. There are moments when you are not going to feel like you are worth it and those moments are dark and consuming and miserable, but the amazing thing about people is that we can find ways to pick ourselves up out of these holes and move on. We can remind ourselves that we are strong and powerful and no matter what anybody says, we can do it. There was a time in my life when I hated who I was and projected such a miserable persona that other people didn’t like me either. I was basing my self-worth on those people, creating a vicious cycle that took years of rehabilitation to break. I am now at the point where people may hurt me and take advantage of me and try and make me feel like I am not deserving of the best things in life, but I know that those people are wrong. Everyone deserves love and affection and appreciation and it starts with being able to look at yourself in the mirror and say, “Fuck yeah. I rock. I deserve this.” Even when it is on the most basic level: “I got out of bed today.” or “I am really rocking these jeans right now,” it is important to remember how incredible you are. Love yourself and readily accept love from others. Don’t let small moments of sadness define your opinion of who you are because you are so much better than that. Never be afraid to be yourself because you are beautiful and so loved. Have a great night everyone ❤️️ I am proud to say that I love not only myself, but each and every one of you.